Frequently Asked Questions

Is there a dress code?

There is no dress code. Our erotic dinner provides the perfect venue for you to don that fabulous or outrageous outfit you don’t often have an opportunity to wear. We’ve seen everything from Versace gowns to amazing latex clothing walk through our doors. Wear whatever will enhance your experience at the dinner.
Please, no glitter.

Is there an age restriction?

This is an rated R event, make no mistake. You must be at least 18 years of age, or 21 if you would like wine pairings with your meal.

Will my dietary restrictions be honored?

Absolutely! We work very hard to meet your dietary restrictions. In most cases our guests with dietary restrictions get an equivalent dish. Rarely are restrictions such that a guest will need to pass on that part of the meal. That being said, we are not equipped to honor Kosher or Halal restrictions.
We do ask you to keep in mind that creating a gourmet, multi-course meal for up to 24 people takes creativity, time and a lot of hard work. Please state your restrictions clearly, and as specifically as possible, when making your reservation.

I am single, can I still attend?

Yes. We do suggest you bring a date. Most of the people who have attended as singles, have said they think the experience would be better with a date. That is most, not all. A few of our regulars are single.

Is this a sex party?

No, this is not a sex or play party. This is an erotic and sensual experience, not a sexual experience. There might be touching during the dinner, and if there is, it will all be above the waist. If you want to go to a sex party, we strongly recommend Twist SF or one of the many parties at Mission Control.

Is this a BDSM party?

No. We won't flog you or tie you up. Occasionally, guests with BDSM fetishes attend the dinner, interacting with each other based on their mutual interests. They aren't scary people and they won't include you, unless you ask nicely.

Can I take one of the servers home with me?


What are the different dinners you offer?

We offer two different dinners at this time, our Introductory dinner and our Intermediate dinner. The Introductory dinner is a good place to start for to anyone interested in experiencing our dinners. The Intermediate dinner is a lot more involved and intense; we recommend that guests have attended at least one Introductory dinner.

How are the Introductory and Intermediate dinners different?

The differences between the Introductory Dinner and the Intermediate Dinner are mostly those of scale. For example the Intro dinner is 6 - 8 course while the Intermediate dinner is generally 12-15 courses. The Intro dinner doesn't include specialty items like lobster, caviar, foie and truffles. The Intermediate dinner always includes specialty items. In the Introductory dinner we don't assume the consent of our guests, in the Intermediate dinner we do. There are many, many differences between the two dinners, so many that it is difficult to descirbe them all.

How much does the dinner cost?

The introductory dinner is $135 per person without wine pairings or $185 per person with wine pairings. The intermediate dinner is $300 per person, and it comes with wine pairings.

Can I bring my own wine?

Of course. Keep in mind that we plan the wine and the menu together to ensure the best pairings. The wine you bring may or may not pair well. We do not charge a corkage fee.

If I want to have a private party in your space, who should I contact?

We love to host private parties. Our space has a maximum capacity of 49 total people, including guests and staff. If you want to discuss details, contact me.

Where are you located?

We are located a few blocks from the Civic Center BART station in downtown San Francisco.

What time does the dinner start?

The dinners, both Introductory and Intermediate, start at 7:00 pm. The Introductory dinner ends between 9:30 - 10:00, and the Intermediate dinner ends around 11:00 - 11:30.

Are there dinners like yours in another part of the country?

So far we are the only dinner of this kind that we know about, any where. Which is really sad.

Can I get her phone number?

No. Really.

Is there a cancellation policy?

Yes. If you cancel at least 72 hours before the event you will get a full refund.

What happens after I make reservations?

You will receive an email the week of the event that will contain all the information you need.
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